How I got here

For the first part of my life, I did what I was supposed to do.

I followed the rules. I did what I was 'supposed to do'. I studied hard. I chose a sensible degree. I got married young. I joined a corporate graduate scheme.

And for a while, it worked - or at least, it looked like it did.

But underneath, I was drifting. Not fully in. Not fully out. Capable but uncommitted. Performing, but not connected.

It took burnout, grief, and a collapse of the life I had built for me to stop and ask - what am I really here for?

After the death of my younger brother, everything I had pushed down came up. The depression. The disconnection. The absence of meaning. And also, slowly, the desire for something more honest. More real.

In 2017, I trained as a coach and left my job and my marriage. I set off on what would become a long, global journey of breaking open and rebuilding. Eventually, that journey led me to Cambodia.

Since then, I’ve kept doing my own work - healing, refining, realigning - while supporting others to do the same. Not just emotionally, but structurally.

Today, I work as a transformation coach and trainer, helping leaders, creatives, and founders reconnect to what matters, clarify what’s next, and build lives that reflect who they really are.

In 2020, I founded the Cambodia Coaching Institute, where I’ve trained the first generation of professional coaches in the country. I also co-lead the Connection Collective - a community for soulful leadership, healing, and systems-shaping work.

The people who find me tend to be capable, sensitive, thoughtful, and often a little tired. They’ve taken their first steps to do the inner work. They know how to perform. But they’ve drifted from their core, and they’re ready to realign and move with integrity.

I’m particularly drawn to creatives and artists in all forms - whether they are writers, performers, entrepreneurs, corporate leaders, or even government officials. People who are trying to bring something meaningful into the world, but need more internal coherence to do it well.

My work is direct, emotionally grounded, and deeply respectful of complexity.

I won’t give you quick fixes or false certainty.

I’ll offer clarity, structure, and space, so you can come back to what matters, and move from there.